The month was punctuated with a “bonfire” (setting wood on fire in a metal barrel) at the beach on Pete’s birthday and with Harris’s solo show at Sara’s. I was permeated with restlessness, much like the vintage plastic never-fall doll I got Pete as a birthday present. As soon as you push her down she jolts back up. Since the tail end of the previous summer I’d been fractured and remolding myself. I was searching but wasn’t sure what for. The only way I knew how to find it was by nosediving into anything that would enrich or simply stimulate me. I achieved this, but not without getting scorched by the hazards of my dabbling. But by April I was finally beginning to see a little straighter, and couldn’t deny that I had definitely been lost in the winter. And as even more time went on, I would realize that in those months I’d been in a perpetual wrestle with my sadness, wrangling it like hard clay and trying to rework it into something that would feed me instead of poison me. On the phone, my mother remarked that while she was a little on edge about my behavior and especially couldn’t understand the drugs or the techno, she had admiration for what I had done with my heartbreak.
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-Continued in April Part 2-